How can mentally harassed husband get rid from his wife

After going through your case, the only alternative you are left it is to get a divorce from her. But, by whatever I understand about her personality, she would not leave you so easily, so here are a few tips before legally filling for the divorce:

1. Make a recording of all the statements she says to you about killing herself. You can make use of spy cameras for this which are easily available in electronic shopp these days.

2. You may clear up all the bank statements and property claims so that she may not falsely claim that to be hers given by her father in dowry.

3. If she is abusive, record that too.

4. You may meet all the doctors and hospital authorities where she was admitted when she tried a suicide attempt and collect all the proofs of your innocence in advance.

5. As soon as you file the divorce case, move away from her even if that means leaving your home to her. You may get it legally later after the court hearing.

6. Decide beforehand what you can efford to give her as ransom so that it may not trouble you later.

7. Be clear about your relations with other people especially female friends, so that she may not use it against you.

8. Approach the best divorce lawyer and get his advice on how to proceed further.

9. The day you move away, first of all sit with her and talk to her about everything you feel about her behavior and attitude. She should be given a last chance. don’t hold back anything and do not shout, just talk to her of what you feel. If talking is not possible, write a long letter to her making her understand the reason behind you action. This is important as any step taken in life with vehement and bitterness can lead to a lot of disappointment later in life.

Do not wait as more delay would mean more torture for you and your daughter. Remember she is also a human being and ‘to err is human’, be sympathetic but firm towards her.

Best wishes.

But be careful please secure all your important things such as bank accounts and property papers I would suggest you to keep them at the bank locker and do not show how much money you are earning. Keep financial statements out of her sight

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I will suggest you, first of all you should try to find out the reason for such behaviour..if she is behaving like that there must be some reason ask her what she wants to do it is possible that she may give you some clues and after getting clues just try to find out the solutions, discuss with her only to remove differences between both of you, because the fight between both of will ultimately affect your kids career and mental condition.

So rather than breaking the Knot try to tie it for your kid.

Second option if after making all the efforts you won’t succeed then you can appoint one good advocate for divorce, and definitely there must be some way to work out with all this issues.

and suppose if you want to go for Divorce then you have to do it with cautions because than question will be arise that who will take care of Kid from both of you.